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I used to be that innocent girl who had the world at her feet. I was beautiful and I had eyes and hips that could make men sway, and to top it all up, I was a Christian, a very good Christian with a heart burning for God.
When I entered the university, I met a guy, his name was Derrick. I couldn’t believe my luck the first time I bumped into him on my way to class, he had such a kind smile and a tender look that weakened my knees when he spoke.
Because I was late for class we couldn’t talk much but barely three weeks later, I met him at the fresher’s night party and I was
overwhelmed. We got talking and I found out that he was in his second year and from that night, we became an inseparable pair.
At first, we were friends and as months passed by, we got closer and closer and the chemistry between us was undeniable.
About a year after I entered the university, Derrick and I started dating. He was everything a girl could ever want and desire save the fact that he wasn’t so much of a Christian. Derrick had magical hands that made him hard to resist and most times I fell for it. At first, I felt bad but when I couldn’t help falling into the same pit I killed the guilt on my inside. And then one day, one of my friends said I was getting fatter and that got me thinking and in the process I began to link the dots…first I had a vomiting spree every morning which I thought was due to a flu and then I had this morning sickness which I felt was due to stress and then my missing period…oh no it can’t be possible I said to myself, I couldn’t be pregnant!!!
After a series of test outside school, I realized the deadliest truth, I was indeed pregnant. I was only nineteen, I still had a whole life ahead of me, what was I going to do. I couldn’t tell my parents, they wouldn’t hear of it. I had to go to Derrick to tell him what I had found out.
On telling him, I saw him fly into a temper I had never seen in my life. He was so hysterical, calling me all sorts of names and I didn’t even know when I started crying heart drenching tears of hurt and betrayal. When he looked into my eyes he must have realized how scared and hurt I was and so he pulled me close and ran his hands through my hair until I had calmed down and then he said to me in the most subtle voice ever ” why don’t you have an abortion”. I pulled back instantly, I couldn’t have an abortion! But when he talked about my parents and the sanctioning of the school and the fellowship which I belonged to, I knew I had no other choice.
Derrick had made all the arrangements and so on the supposed day we went to the room- like clinic. I shivered all through my way
there but Derrick kept telling me that it would be okay and that he was proud that I made such a brave decision. When I entered
into the room where the abortion was supposed to take place I laid down on the table trying to dissociate my mind from what I was about to do and then a young man told me sternly, ” you know I can’t perform this procedure with your underwear on” and then I began to pull it off. As I did this a sense of guilt overwhelmed me, first I had pulled off my underwear of pleasure and now I was pulling it off to get rid of the stigma the pleasure had brought…what a shame, I felt so exposed.
All through the times that I felt instruments coming in and out of me, I kept thinking of the lady I had become and the hypocrite I had transformed into. I let out a sigh, only if I can get through this I muttered… only if…and then I felt a sharp pain pierce through the whole of my body, I screamed but then the doctor told me to be quiet. I felt another pain but this time I bit my lip and then the pain began to come in successions. I instinctively knew that something was wrong but I was too weak to talk or to move and then I heard the voices of Derrick and the doctor talking about the fact that I was bleeding excessively. The pain was so unbearable and I could feel myself getting weaker and weaker. With the last strength in me, I pleaded with God ”Oh Lord I’m so sorry for taking my under wears off, please forgive me.” and I drifted into a world where the pain seemed less hurtful and the voices seemed more distant.
Friends, our bodies are the temple of the Lord… Do not take off your underwear when the time is not right. Lots of girls who gained admission into the university as virgins eventually lost it so cheaply to guys who have nothing to do with their
destinies. In a bid to get a certificate, they sold out a destiny that certificate cannot guarantee.
Friends, permit me to say it for the umpteenth time, even if you have lost your virginity, you can become chaste again! Record a
period of virginity from a particular time till marriage and in the presence of God, you are as chaste as someone who has known no man because you have chosen to honor Him again despite your past.
Virtuous women aren’t in bed with their fiancé right now. If he is sleeping with you…he’s sleeping with others. Yup, you are not the only one. A boyfriend, even a long term one is STILL not a husband. Too many women are giving boyfriends husband privileges! We keep losing what is rightfully ours because we keep messing with what’s not ours. There is just something classy about a
woman who can control her emotions!
Many have been laid on the slab of abortion, yet they keep involving in activities that will take them back on that slab! Risking it all!
Please, DON’T TAKE OFF YOUR UNDERWEAR!; any man who has not signed his life to you is not worth it!
Source: Divinechioma’s Blog
This has nothing to do with underwear and everything to do with good sex education and access to contraception. While I sympathise with your pain, I think that all you are doing with this article is perpetuating superstition and misogynistic, patriarchal attitudes.
Having sex is not a sin and the notion that women in particular, should feel shame for enjoying it, is wrong. It seems to me like you were encouraged into a sexual union for which you weren’t emotionally ready. I’m not sure whether Derrick was taking advantage of you or just another victim of naiveté but your situation may have been more easily avoided had you been surrounded by more knowledge, some means of contraception and a less taboo ridden society. The doctor who performed the operation sounds like he may have been a little harsh too, which is often a symptom of a disapproving society.
Instead of advising women to keep their pants on, perhaps we should educate and empower them so that they can easily make the decisions which are best for them.
Wow! Udi, people still think like you do in this day and age? Pre-marital sex is NOT a sin? Like seriously? Do you ever
Read the bible? At all? Even just a little? Good luck down the path of modernism and intellectualism, grab a fan, you’ll need it where you are going.
P.s you probably are going to try to intellectualize and contextualize me, just incase you were wondering, an unrepentant judeo-Christian socially surpressed tag will do, one who is out of touch with modern day advances… Don’t worry, hurry up and go do your yoga, your instructor is probably waiting, he’s going to teach you how to worship the sun today…
If it wasn’t for the harm that your attitude does to people, especially in Africa, I would just laugh it off. I am not particularly ‘new age’ as you seem to imply and in answer to your question, yes I have read the bible. I’ve read what you probably call the old testament in Hebrew and in English and have struggled through some of the new testament in old greek and read the rest in English. i have also read many other legends, myths and ‘holy’ books. Like lots of religious people, you seem to be claiming that your view of sex at least and of what happens after death, is based on scripture. I don’t know you personally but in my experience, people who claim to live by the bible, are usually very ignorant of what it actually contains. I would appreciate it if you could use the bible to substantiate what you claim. As you started with an ad hominem attack, I am not expecting civil discourse from you but I always like to be pleasantly surprised.
Simply put, pre-marital sex is not just wrong, it is both shameful and offensive. Don’t undermine the pain and agony of an individual who needed healing due to a miss step, don’t condone either. Empathy is good in this case; just stop your nonsense conclusion that pre-marital sex is ok.
It’s not rocket science, it’s common sense; that intimacy that encompasses the soul is such a captivating way that sex does, should not be taken so lightly or flimsily.
My advice is to speak to someone with or without any religious disposition but just some good home training, common sense and decency. And Oh by the way, I’m not writing from Africa; I;m here in NY.
However strongly you assert your point of view, it is still wrong. Marriage is a relatively recent social construct in terms of human development. While there was clearly a reason for its creation, it isn’t the only decent way for people to enjoy intimacy.
I’m not suggesting that strong intimacy be taken lightly nor that we underestimate anyone’s pain or suffering. On the contrary, the reason I replied to you in the first place is because I think you are perpetuating that pain and suffering by insisting on your moralistic, dare I say it, misogynist stance.
As to where you are writing from, it is irrelevant. the harm you are doing is greater in parts of the world with poor access to education and a history of strong superstition.
My advice to you is that you look to your own failings before trying to find them in others.
oh God pls help me to stand strong in you and never to go bk to sin
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Hypocrites all over this page…premarital would just not stop. So deal with it using your brains
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My dear, i enjoy ur article, infact is an articulatd article, tanx 4 d write up, bt i must tel u, removin underwear is nt a bad tin bt it is bad wen u dat is removing it do nt knw d consequencies of wot u r doin n hw 2 prevent dem,
it is also bad wen u remv it wt d wrong person, so my advice is dat young boys n grls shd try 2 define dia relationshp b4 dy start doin sm kind oe tins
may God forgive you!
Sister, you are right by saying do not took off your underwear without marriage. However, what you fialed to undertand and realised is that people differ with regard to sexual urge. If you are matured and you are the type that has more craving for sex, the solution is to get married. After all, schooling cannot stop disturb marriage and vice versa. In fact, evidences have shown that married ladies tend to be more seroius and focused with their study than the unmarried. I do not think anybody can cheat a nature. Sexual urge is natural, it knows no bound. Thsi is why several preists have been caught in the act many times with their pants down. except a castrated person, everybody need a sex once in a while. This is why some faith, such as Islam, encourage early marriage so that people will not engaged in fornication which is rampant in our Universities and in the soceity of today. Come to the solution proferred by Islam and I am sure that the world will be saved from this calamity.
be fair and kind and when you are ready for sex and your heart is pure the spirit of God will tell you when this is and you should know no shame when this is heaven and earth though there be many in pain who struggle with this issue the comforter comes to comfort you as I do forevermore
make una allow me hear word abeg….hw many of una wey write comment on dis issue fit swear say una no dey pull una underwears……….my only advice 4 ladies is dat….if u must pull, pull 4 a guy who has sumfin doing and not a jobless guy….and on d other hand if there comes pregnancy..pls keep d baby…DO NOT ABORT IT…..God knows why it happens dat way.
Well in the book of exodus;20;13 says.You shall not murder,You shall also not commit adultery,Please let try to keep this and see the power of God in our life
Well life goes on just maintain ur stand
Many other girls will still say this testimony even after reading this… Conscious efforts have never gotten anyone anywhere, but if Christ is in u and u in him, walking unto perfection u will understand that this is just a story, the mistake she made was falling in love with a guy who she was not really sure had the fear of God in him. Thats the true problem, its not even about taking your underwear off. Let the man u seek have Christ in him and love God, he will love you as Christ loves the church even before marriage… Nice Story, just pointing out the real problem.
BullShit!!!
an absolute must read for young people facing the perfectly natural temptations to give in to the desires of this flesh “XSense by Dr Yaw Perbi and his wife.
Nonsenseee ladies ladies ladies virginity is for both man and woman let’s cal a spade a spade bydway men force ladies t go into it
I remember how I once found myself removing my underwear for an abortion too. The problem is if you will go back to it or not? Do not condem yourself if you are in this business, the best thing to do is to surrounder all to the King, Jesus. I decided after the first one that I will keep myself till I get married, then I lost the man I thought I loved. Because I will do it no more, it’s always like that for the guys who do not really love you.with the help of God my husband did not believe that I wasn’t a virgin the first time we made love. He knew instanly that I was not someone who was indulge in sex. It is best to stay till marriage because it can be boring sometimes when you finally get into it full time. You can get tired of it sometimes so there’s no need rushing it.
hmmmmm.God see us through this life’s journey..amen
sex is good, but there is time for everything.Dont engage yourself in it when u are not married. It may ruin your whole life if u dont respect it.Lets all learn good lessons from this we must wait, it is possible for we’ve been given the spirit of self control not fear.
Let’s rise and rebuild the broken wall of purity! Taking an oath of purity by the grace of God! Ladies & guy, Sexual purity is a possibility through personal determination & the grace of God in Christ JESUS! Begin today!!
i believe this is a good advice to all women, men always talk so loosely about the women they took to bed in public and it so sickening. Please all ladies let a man take you to the altar before jumping into bed with you. Any man who gets married to you the right way will not feel good talking about what you did in bed with such disdain.
GOD HAVE MERCY ON US ALL, DIS WORLD IS TURNING INTO SMTHING ELSE, LADIES BE WISE COS LOVE IS NOT SEX…….
You can’t eat your cake and have it. Let us not be deceived, evil/sin will never go unpunished. There is a reward for every actions we take. There is a reward also for every motives we have for any of these actions taken. What is the profit obtained when you loose real value to temporary pleasure? Your body is not just the temple of the living God. You are a god. Every sin you commit is outside of your body but fornication and adultery is with your body, soul and spirit. Look at the gravity.
Note that this isn’t for the ladies alone. Guys especially should be careful. People, don’t throw away your dignity for something that you will have and enjoy all your life when the time comes. Hell fire is the final reward for sinners. The law of carma still works and perfectly today. You reap whatever you sow even here on earth.
The conclusion is, go to God in prayers now. He loves you so much even in this your present condition. His arms are wide open but you have to run to Him for Him to embrace you. Say a word of prayer to Him and He’ll accept you back. I assure you that you will never be the same again.
Heaven and hell are real. We are all accountable for our lives and actions. Be wise. God bless you.
LADIES,PLS WATCH OUT AND BE ON THE LOOK OUT.DONT FALL INTO THE TRAP OF THE ENEMY.
Is very true ladies where and when we remove our underwear must be concern us alot we must not do that to oursleves but if it had been occured in ur life before,not worry u can change it for de best and also de right tym will come for u to remove ur underwear
This is wonderful, the person who wrote this DEFINITELY have read the School of Virtue tract “i should have told her” written by the Holy spirit using me as the pen. Am glad it is a blessing. Some many innocent girls, come to the University and trade away a destiny that a certificate can not guarantee because they want to feel among shake the campus, and leave a mark. May God direct the path of every reader of this piece. Indeed i should have told Jibike but since it is already late for her, we are telling you NOW!
May God keep the speakers and the readers
d story quit interestin nd sadin,i read nd i was move by it dis cal 2 all u gil dat fall in luv bcoz of handsome or money,so try 2 hold on 4ur real husband nd nava mes up.
GIRL ALL WHAT YOU SAID WAS TRUE BESIDE FATHER PLEASE FORGIVE US BECOS WE DOESN’T KNOW WHAT WE ARE DOING.. MEN AND WOMAN SHOULD CLAM DOWN AND LOOK FOR THIER RIGHT LIFE PARTNERS.
Lord please have mercy upon us. And grant us the strenght to overcome all temptations.
We kip reading dis stuff,but no change,most of us here are involved,even d writter,write on sometin else pls
dis also not an easy one .every thun we need is stong nd effective prayers to boost our belief.gud story though
to be a virtous woman is what will please uthe lord and ur husband.women watch out and be vigilant.
lets keep our bodies very clean,as well as giving respect to our bodies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Well ds is rily a food for thought. Hope every gal will learn from ds heart-breaking nd touching story. For gals hu av lost deyre honour in one way or d other, u can re-virginize nd I bet, u won’t regret it nd dose still keeping diers, don’t be ashamed of it wen d tym comes, he’ll cherish nd love u more. Say no to pre-marital sex no matter what. He doesn’t worth it…hope we’ve all learnt something! Luv ya’ll
Really from d day sex became easier 2 get.marriage lost its taste n became less serious.may God help us
We men are so deceiving when it comes to getting access to a Females’s pant..we should learn to live a life of Holiness…. I did prefer you tell the Girl the honest truth than telling her you will marry her all because of Sex Sex Sex…May God Help Us
hi men this is grate,God bliss u for this, i urge every youth to learn from this,a lot have lost there precious life for this,a gust ion i usually ask at times, how long can you a young girl allow your emotion to drake you into this ,how may abortions will you commit before getting married and for how many men? therefore i urge every youth to put your truth in God
Our body is d temple of God..lets live a righteous life…
If only u and i dat av seen and read dis story wil live RIGHT and not just commenting on it,the world wil be a better place,it is easier said than done.LIVING RIGHT BEGINS WITH YOU NOT “HIM“ OR ‘HER‘.
This is lovely.A story to learn from.
Men let’s stop deceiving ladies with I go marry u. may God help us all
God help our girl of this days coz there are very weak
its indeed a lesson to every one especially, those of us who have taken up our cross to follow Christ whom we claim to be our mentor. My dear friends most of us fall as victim to dis act, let us be careful for Christ is coming soon. Beware of deceit.
I love der story.it is not an advice to only ladies but also to young men.
the bile enjoins to flee youthful lust but most youths still think that they can eat their cake and have it. Remember no matter how anointed and gifted person is, your body is made of flesh and blood not wood and metals. Therefore the warning comes again to flee youthful lust
its just a test of time but failure to relieze it result in this. we have to be careful about the message we carry around on somebody
I pray that God will forgive her of her sins. Let this serve as a warning to all of us (not the ladies only) that our bodies do not belong to us but Christ. God bless you all
I feel very guilty. God forgive me my sins.
Friends, our bodies are the temple of the Lord… Do not take off your underwear when the time is not right. Lots of girls who gained admission into the university as virgins eventually lost it so cheaply to guys who have nothing to do with their
destinies. In a bid to get a certificate, they sold out a destiny that certificate cannot guarantee
Lord grant us GRACE to keep chast… Amen
Yes! Keeping your under wear on is worth it. Joseph’s cloak was in the hand of his masters wife but his his under wear was on. SEX IS LIKE A PARCEL FROM GOD TO US WHICH WE MUST NOT OPEN UNTIL MARRIAGE. LOVE GLORY RATHER THAN SHAME!
Once in man’s life mistakes are bound to happen but when we realize what we have done and plead God surely forgives us and sanctify us from the past events.
Thank you LORD is all i can say and thank you for this piece of truth
ITS QUITE INTERESSTNG BUT ARE WE REALLY LEARNING TO KEEP OUR UNDERWEWAR UP
God owns us. We are created in His image there4 bcos He is holy we must be holy too
2bad. Am weak.
Wel, u guys have say it all. In addittion, God who gives potency for sex says flee away from fornication. Let a man has his own wife and a woman her own husband. Dis instruction is 4 our own benefits, al d commandment of God is written 4 our own good. God can never fall victim of it . If a pot thinks dat is wiser dan d potter, what do u think wil happen to it? Ur plausible response is meant 4 ur own consumption, ponder on it.
Very inspiring and powerfull information, but have the girls understood and felt the great Psychological pain simply caused by taking-off their underwear? It’s up to you girls!
God bles u 4 such a post and help u keep ur underware till u marry tanx
so is, is she still with the guy?..I guess that’s also an important thing.
SEX IX SEX? U DNT HAVE TO B STUPID
Hello Dan, she is not an hypocrite, I pray that the Lord will have mercy on you, Sex is not for enjoyment outside marriage but within marriage only.
Hypocrites! sex is sex and if you are stupid enough to have sex and get pregnant then dont go around ruining it for everybody… Have sex and enjoy it, but keep the babies in the condoms
that is a powerful message,God love us no matter how great a sin we have committed but it is this knowledge that we lack. Jesus told His disciples he that is wash need no bath again. He died once and that is all we need.
i am so touched my dear God bless you for releasing your mistake. may God have mercy on all of us.
to our fellow women especially those in the tertiary we say a WORD TO A WISE??????????????
Many problems pple is related to there past infidelity(Sexual sins).
Even after conversion, the consequences are inevitable, except for Divine supernatural intervention.
The unbelievers are saying ABSTAIN & the Church is saying the same thing ABSTAIN. So wot oda prove or conviction do we need. May God grant us all an ABIDING GRACE.
Well … Its A Pathetic & Touchy Story That Touched Some Hearts & With Morals 2B Grasped Therefrom!
She Unveiled Her Underwear Because She Couldnt Resist The Enslavin Urge. He Aided In The Unveilin Of Her Underwear Bcs He Too Was Enslaved By Lust & Desire 4D Gratification Of The Flesh!
My Candid Opinion…If U Cannot Resist The Urge In TheBody Chemistry,Do Not Terminate The Life Of The Resultant Effect Of That Illicit Relationship. It Too Has A Life Of Its Own & A Destiny 2B Fulfilld
..Bt Superbly To Reject That Bodily Urge Completely..We All The Grace Of GOD ALMIGHTY. May The Good Lord See Us All Through..Bcs I’m Also Included
LET US NOT FORGET THAT GOD WILL JUDGE EVERYONE THROUGH WHOM ANOTHER FALLS (INTO SIN)
Sincerely Biblically is against d will of God, statistically more than 60% are into dis act,medically is harzardious, politically is a chioce & it’s gamblin, pls leav upright so that u can be happy.God change us
Lyf has stages, nd most tempting stage is d teen nd youth stage, bt there’s no pain without gain. If grow a virgin u wl enjoy d benefits, mother’s dnt av 2 say they rgret having female children. Everything in lyf cums wit temptations, bt we can overcome it if we become more prayerful. My fellow ladies, your virginity should be ur pride nd wat u cherish most, so dnt sell 2 anyone who is not ur husband. Nt even ur fiance. May d Lord help us so as 2 rmain glorious virgins.
this is quite an interesting one, i love it i must say, may God help us all through every temptation of this life.
As a young xtian I fell into sexual sin to my surprise! I never thought it would happen to me. We were never dating yet it did happened. But one thing was certain, after the mess we quickly retraced our steps and never allowed it repeat, though still close but no more intimately. I can tell you that was the hottest blow I ever got from the enemy, but I learnt two infallible lessons from the incidence.
1. Christianity can never go with frivolity. If you try frivolity you will sink in iniquity. A Christian must be sober at all times.
2. Never allow to be with a lady in isolation except with a third party. No matter how holy or of what class, you could be disarmed if complacent.
Thank Our Merciful God.
In every mess there is a message!
Father let ur mercy prevail over our life for indeed we have sinned, let this also be a lesson to the unmarried ladies out there keep urself and ur husband will surely find u.
GOD i plead for ur mercy.4give us for we ve sinned against u.
Let him that have let him hear d spirit is saying…
Livin a life ful of light nt hypocritical life is d life we need to live. Truely our temple is dat of God. Truely d world is ful of many atrocities. We just ve to pray dat God we help us to overcm temptation in everi cruk n cranies of dis world.
I think we are leaving behind the sickness and trying so hard to treat the symptom.Admitted this kind of shit can happen by mistake but the bitter truth which i need to force down our throat is that a lot of people that declare that they are christians are not even close to knowing what it means to be a christian.This is bcos it has bcome fashionable in our time to be called a christian.Its now like a label or brand rather than a lifestyle,so everyone is rebranding themselves and nobody wants to be leftout.The same reason we have a lot of churches in this country and still our moral decadence is stinking to high heavens.That brings to mind what my elder bro said in the bible that not everyone that calls me Lord Lord will enter into the kingdom of God.The question is are u sure u r a christian or are u just carrying the label? Be certain of what u r cos d worst kind of deceit is self-deceit. Selah
The best time to learn is when its nt too late. Ladies nd guys, its up to u. Make d rite choice of lyf. JESUS!
Hmm,…… God is watchn us……..
Hmm, God is watchn us
Tanz 4 letting me see d power of d cross once again. May God 4give us n give us d grace 2 continually remember dt d life we r living 4 doesn’t worth Christ dying 4.For those who hav decided 2 live 4 Him despite our dirty past, He’ll give us d enablement n d reward is amazing. More grace 2 us all.
thank God 4 reve! More grace in our walk Lord!
Tank God bcos He is aGod of a secod chance
ladys any guy that cannot deny sex till marriage asking to take u to bed wants nothing from u that to distroy u………………………i for example i make an agreement with my fiancé of three years now that no need of sex till marriage………………………and we both agree and we live happy both in our community and in the present of God…………………u can do it too……….
i believe this should be corrected, it can not continue this way, ……………….i was with couple of guys some weeks ago during there discussion they conclude that of all the female corpers they seen none is a virgin,………………….mmm later i asked myself where has it travelled to? Ladys pls keep urself…………………………………. apart from believe or religion u re meant to be clean not dirty,………………………… will u preffer to buy tokunbo when u have the money to buy new one
Its indeed a touchng story wit teachngs to al.God help us!!
God shall help our young girls for them to realise theirself
Great advice. Do the Good just because it is good not out of fear or frame. For religion because he who loves you best wants you to. Thanks for shareing
Really God’s mercy is there to help those that ve falling victim. My fellow Boys Zip-Up, Girls don’t pull down ur underwear.
Everybody is here shouting. Who are d people responsible for introducing diz young ladies 2 carnal world?
I jus tink everybody shud be kful. Not just d ladies.
Its actually a lesson 4 all. If u remove ur underwear once, i can be sure u’ll remove it a 2nd time. But, if u’ve already removed it, just go to God. And pls, can i point out something? Its not only d girls dat should take correction or be blamed but everybody. Both boys and girls alike. Thanx
One sin takes u to another. It will only end up destroying you & leaving you miserable in life. Abortion is never a mere personal choice but a grave offense against God & His creation, may God have mercy.
Lord have Mercy!we Ladies will excel more and over come all these if w’ll be very wise n patient knowing the best is yet to come,and no man who truely loves u,rich or poor will subject u to such risk!Father Forgive…Amen
only God wil save us in dis earth. I pray dat God shud help us to keep our vaginity.
I thnk God for this inspiring story. God forgive me n give me the grace to keep my body for u
Hmmmmmm, shocked & short of words to comment. I wish dat nt only our sisters alone bt, the brothers and all married people shud hv the previlage of reading this sad & heart touching information. I pray that God will use this to transform lives to the glory of His name! May God bless the person that blogs it & the one that shares it immeasurably!
Wooh is really sympathetic and to those who are saying that “been a virgin till 28yrs is crime’ dat is a pure lie from bottomless pit of hell that mean u are not a son or daughter of God and not even a christain,If God is our father where then is His Honour of Obedience where he said flee Fornication and all it appearances one thing i Know is that bible said ” Yea man U are in excuseable’ that means u must give account of everything u do in this life unto the owner of ur life cos u are just the care taket of that life and u must do all the Landlord said if not you have self to blame, Let All both parties work on our minds and get determined like Daniel said “i will not defile myself with the Kings food’ and God will see us through.Gods grace cos we can do all Zipping up if We reallu Want.
this has realy change my life i must say it u are sent to me.
May God help us.hmmmm, for by strenght shall no man prevail.
Wow,dis is so touchin,hop ladies wil learn frm dis likewise guys
Many always see d outward appearance as d in tin, & 4get d inner apearace which is d best. Most of des ladies prefer guys who ar very cute wit bad intention dan an average guy who is ready 2 die 4 dem. Well, we tank God 4 everytin
2 be forwarned is 2 b forarmed. Dis is indeed a message 2 any1 readin dis. NEVER Let anyone make u pull ur undear wear 4 a days pleasure it might b 4 regrets 2morow. God’s grace is sufficient 4 us… Nd may God help esp we d ladies in dis generation….
This is a world class testimony, I strongly advise the youths boys and girls alike, to be careful the they live there life. The Bible said that, enjoy yourself when you are young, but remember that God is going to judge you according to everything you do.
MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON US.
It’s a cooked up story to warn girls into getting involved at an early age. I do not support the writer view cuz in reality, good girls (as portrayed in the story, christian-like, god-like, marriage-minded, church-goer e.t.c) usually end up with a bad guy and bad girls usually end up with a good guy. The prostitute you see today has a good chance of getting married to a good man than a core christian lady getting married to a good man.
It is this same doctrine of protecting your body because it’s the temple of god that led to ladies of 28years old and above to remain a virgin. How will you feel if you hear that a 28 years old girl is a virgin? I need a honest response from you.
May God help us! Sex is nt the ultimate in a relation, there is a lot more!
Lyf it self is a skol we learn on our own daily we learn 4m pple. God help our souls. On one side Guys ar to b blamd on d oda side ladies ar also to b blamed so b wise & lok unto GOD 4 HELP 4 BY STRENGTH SHALL NO MAN PREVAIL. PEACE!
Touching and full of lessons! Hmm… Lord,help me to keep my body holy for your use. And forgive me for my past errors,Amen.
I dont know why most Nigerians enjoy being Hypocrates,the article is soo touching and inspiring as well, but most guys here are sounding like they have never indulged in dis immoarlity,70% of d guys commenting do this (sex) on d regular some even force there girfriends into this act. Pls lets all practice what we preach and may God give us d power to abstain from dis sinful act. Amen.
Let ♍ƺ add this,if U̶̲̥̅̊ α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ nt ready for marriage nd ofcourse sex,don’t even into A̶̲̥̅̊ relationship,enjoy U̲̅я single life,Ąπϑ if U̶̲̥̅̊ α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ there,guide U̲̅я heart nd thoughts,pray for U̲̅я partner,nd don’t take any chance.God wl help us al.
May God help us to keep ourselves as chaste virgin for christ
it’s only GOD that can help ladies.50% of ladies do tell guys to check them, that is to say to have sex with them.while 30% were deceived by guys, i pray that GOD will open their eye to see the danger in having sex before marriage.
YES YOUR BODY IS THE TEMPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, SO PLEASE BECAREFULL HOW YOU EXPOSE IT BEFOR MARRIAGE.
A big Amen to dt O ! God we need more of ur grace to avoid dt which wil make us ladies take off our under wears frm us
We al r preachn abstinence as if its easy.lets b fctual here,if u r above 20yrs n u abstain 4rm it dn its either u masturbate or prctise lesb/gay nd both z also nt gud,i bet al dos preachn ia engage in dis.so do wat u feel n live wt d consequence if u r nt ready 4 mariage.cos its easier said dn done.enjoy
Jealously keep your birthright even when is not condusive. Sexual intercouse is not just to have anyhow. It is a covenant between God and man, given, ordained, anoited to the married people, not any boy/girlfriends; either worth or not, and God doesn’t play with His covenant, that is why He said we should stay away to it when it has not been given. But this is a good news, if you have felt into it, I tell you can still rise again.
HOW I WISH ALL OF US CAN TELL SOMEBODY ABOUT D DANGER OF PRE MATURE LOVE
I jt pray that God should change us i mean d ladys
Food for taught for every believer who has heaven as his or her goal. Bless you all….
How I wish our ladies will make out time to go through thi article so that they will see the consequence they are causing to themselves in the name of he is handsome and all worth not also, wish that the guys will read this so that they will see the harm and scar they are causing to people. The story is touching and educating to one who want.
So touching.abortion keeps u exposed to the devil.
Tnx alot 4 dis gr8 post..Things re fallin apart.Even in our churches 2day..Most of our youths 2day mis use the word luv..The bible said luv ur neighbour lik ur self.I wnt us to exhibit dis kind of luv and nt the oda way round.I urge u felows to think twice 4 u may nt hv a second chance.i pray 4 more undstnding own ur parts and to our up coming daughters..Only the strong and gud christianz can over come dis temptations.Ladies,u can do wit at sex 4 knw..Am a studnt and at sch espcialy in the higher institutions.WE meet the gud and the bad people.it is knw left 4 us to mk the right and wise choice.GOD help us.Amen.
God help our ladies to be faithful to u and also help us all to keep d honour u have given to us till marriage. Tank u Lord 4 ur svaing grace upon dat girl.
Without Christ its nearly impossible to stay off this trap. For me there’s nothing particularly amazing about this story though I appreciate the intentions of the writer. How can a lady talk abt keeping herself when she dresses to advertise sex- which is wat most girls of today do. Its called hypocrisy and it won’t take u anywhere. The young lady simply fell to the desires of a very strong flesh which could happen to anyone else without Christ. This young lady really didn’t have Christ judging frm her story. Modern day christianity is usually advertised hypocrisy.
My sister may God forgive u and give u power not to insounter such again;but all this girls way dey talk uan one tell me say una never do am b4
Father help ur daughters not to fall into such temptation.
this a lesson to all.i ve learnt mine though not a lady or a girl.girl pls learn ur.lord ve mercy on me and all
Wit d arm of flesh we will fall again n again,we need God’s Spirit to guide us tru dis wicked world.
LORD HAVE MERCY ON US
ladies wise up.guys zip up.
Let us all begin the journey of destiny with purity.
if ur sleeping wit ur guy, he is also sleeping wit anoda, many av taken boyfrnds as husband, CHASTITY MATAS!
Sincerly,seeing dat d bulk of comments here is 4rm Naija encourages me dat if d few of us here can stand OUTfor d truth in our fellowship,societies, and fight immorality,indecency and corruption in Nig.wow Naija wil b dat we’ve ever dreamed and prayed for.
Those of us in Final Year in different institution should show love to the younger ones so dat they can differentiate Love 4rm any other feelings.dissociate and terminate every Godly and Ungodly relationship dat tends in an Unknown emotion or feeling.
Pls ur underwear-pant,boxers and what hav u are all precious in God’s Sight.
Tnx for d post and comments,2gether we can turn d world upside down.
pls my fellow ladies, lets try 2 keep our body holy 4 our God is holy. Our body is Gods sanctuary, Gods temple deir he dwells.
I remembered when I was in 500 level, I made the effort to get close to my younger ones in 100 level by attending their fellowship and encouraging them. Of course some people thought I have an ulterior motive of trying to seduce the ladies.
What if every faithful brother befriends these young innocent girls? What if my sisters in the higher levels would take personal interest in these young people? It would go a long way in preventing or reducing the incident narrated by this writer. That way we can help some before they fall prey to wolves in sheep’s clothing.
Most pple think dat love is al about PUTING OFF D UNDERWEAR but is far beyond dat,dia4 lets make our body a living sacrifies by kepin it til mariage,luv can stil be demostrated without SEX.tanx
Him/her without sin,let him/her speak.may God see us through….
A food for thought indeed. If anyone thinks is standing firm, let Him/Her watches His/Her back. May God give us the grace to stand firm.
For it is of d lords mercy that we are not consumed…His compasion faileth not….hunmmm, such a touching story…ladies pls we shld always be very extra careful…lets us watch and pray for our adversry d devil is roaming abt looking fr whom to devour….sex is worth waiting for…. Abstainest is d best protection.
He that thinks hes stand shld take heed…least he falls…watch n pray always. God will see us through amen.
Father pls have ur way.
you
don’t have to put off your underwear to
be sure a man truely loves you
U think it difficult to live a life of chastity but God thinks it easy 4 U to live such a beautiful life. Never too late U can start by trusting Him today & U’ll never regret U did.
I Luv This,Its really a great lesson. May God have Mercy on us all.
just take it easy on your self cos the deed in done.life must continue.atleast it serve as a lesson to nd evry girl or lady.al that glitter ar not gold.
Wel said evri body.search ur hats if u ar guilti, ask 4 mercy.if u ar not, kip it up.if u ar critisizin,ask 4 mercy and if u ar not,pray 4 grace.
We all ask for d mercy of GOD to live a perfection life .It is true our body is d temple of d LORD, once d body has be destroyed d glory in us has be detroyed also.Ladies of substance u heard it all. May GOD help us.
Every day is a leason. let us work with this it wil help us. The only thing that can keep one at of this mess is the word of God. Do kn de word of God? Any body can be a victim of this Rom 12 vs 1.
Am speechless,dont even know wat say .but an advice 2 we ladies
Wht a touching story, ladies! any man dat ask of sex frm u knowing u’re a virgin or not is a JUDEA & will betray u once u’re pregnant 4 him, they may tell u all d sweetest thing in d world but they r doing it jst 2 take u 2 bed, if he fear God he wont ask u 4 it ontil marriage. The bible says…. ”the words of a man r like honey culb” Ask God 2 see tru so dat u can over cum dat temptstion.
IT IS WELL..THE OLDEST TRICK IN THE BOOK IS ” SLEEP WITH ME TO CONFIRM THAT YOU LOVE ME. YOUR RESPONSE SHOULD BE “WAIT FOR ME IF YOU KNOW YOU LOVE ME” WHAT YOU LOVE YOU PROTECT. IF YOU HONOR GOD WITH YOUR BODY TILL WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED AND BEYOND, THERE ARE SEVERAL WAYS THAT HE WILL HONOR YOU IN RETURN THAT I CAN ASSURE YOU. NO MATTER THE TEMPTATION THE PRICE IS JUST TOO HIGH ESPECIALLY AS A CHILD OF GOD. THE GRACE TO ABSTAIN IS MADE AVAILABLE IF YOU TRULY PURPOSE AND DETERMINE.
This is the absolute truth,how I wish youths of nowadays of which am one, will ardently stick to this eternal piece of article and warning because failure to do so is at great risk. God give me more grace to be faithful to you and not think let alone engage in such an ungodly act till the appointed time which by your grace is in a couple of few months from now, if Jesus tarries for the rapture
I must confess dis is indeed an intestine story.d world is transforming into somethin we al don’t understand, bluv al av got to say is dat u should take it easy wit urself,nd u should even b happy u survived nd give testimony to God 4 sparing ur life.
Hmmmmm!!! Dats touchin. Dis 2 show us dat man’s lv is limited bt God’s lv is unlimitd n unconditional. God pls hv mercy on me.
Wot a sad story bt its a proud move u made sharing ur confession.wen I was reading dis confession I was crying in my heart bcos we all know dat abstaince is d best protection bt if u can’t abstain use protection.Girls ur body is d temple of God. O Lord 4give us 4 our sins
Waooo,very pathetic,bles u my blvd 4 unveilin a huge secret 2 us nd 2 al d singlehood.pleasure is 2 sweet bt it’s deadly dats y timothy urges al d singles say let boyfrnd depise or disvirgin thy youth.i only pray 4 God’s grax upon al d single 2 sek afta God’s divne direction even ova ther in d UNIVERSAL WORLD called university cox it’s 2 vast.may God gv us d grax 2 live nd 2 sincerely wait upon him un2 d most pa4et day of marchin 2 d alter.bles u all.
Just 1 mistake like the one we read abt had often been the cause of fibroids and childlessness after marriage. It painful as u see several of such pple moving 4r 1pryer mountain 2 anoda.
I blve 1 simple step of abstinence nd obednt to GOD,s word can kip u off these demonic nd painful exprnses.
May God 4gve us all who indulge in such,as a lady or guy.
Be vigilant!Destiny killers are luckng arnd u.even now.
Our body is d temple of almighty,God has command every believers to be holy and perfect in his sight,may God give us d grace to be holy…
May almighty allah help we ladies,
Thanks to God who has made them male & female @ creation. Thanks to God also that only d female takes off her underwear, gets pregnant, commits d abortion & possible bears d stigma dt follows. But guy be carefull for God’s punishment for all wrong doings & sins so ur not excused
Oh lord have mercy.
This story is really a food for thought, never cheapen yourself all in the name of love some guys will come to you to steal what you have and destroy, that’s why we have to be wise and pray to God for help. Thank heaven this lady have a second chance. God help us.
Its indeed touching. Lord, give us d grace 2 abide by ur words ijn
Hmmm… What a touching life story! For our body is the TEMPLE OF THY LORD. As sisters and brothers we need to keep ourselves from every unclean things that may temper with the TEMPLE OF THY LORD! For those that have a funny mistake before maybe willing or out of ignorance, there still a way for repeatance. HE IS A GOD OF SECOND CHANCE AND HE WILL ALWAYS FORGIVE US!
To round it up on that sister issue, she make a regretful deed worth of it ’cause she defiled the temple of God. But there is still a amendable way for her and for those fellow be it a guy or a lady that found himself or herself in this situation. The bible says old things has passed away. If you can accept Jesus into your life, surrender whole to him after you would’ve recognise your mistake being defading his temple. He is merciful and ready to forgives us our sins. Make yourself precious in his sight and he’ll surely amend our bending past of life and let those ones that has not fall into the pit of destruction be careful. Satan is a real tricker and deceiver, let’s not allow him to use us. Make a self decision and ask for the spirit of God to stand on it. Never jeopardise the chances that God has laid down for you ’cause tomorrow may be too late. Run away from pre marital sex. It’s sexual immorality. (1corinthians chapter 6 verse 13-20). But if you can’t resist, to avoid it then let every man have his own wife and a woman to have her own husband. (1corinthians chapter 7 verse 2-9). Thanks and God bless.
As a responsibly married man, I like to advise all ladies that no man is worth it. Never open your legs to any man who is not your legally married husband. Do not name-tag yourself as “cheap girl” or “cheerful giver”
It only take God grace to resist dis devilish act ,I pray dat God will have merch on us .
Sooo touched!!! God help us
hmmmmmmmm
Parents need to talk to their kids, both male and female about the dangers of premarital sex. There’s always the risk of pregnancy and numerous sexually transmitted diseases that can lead to serious debilitating disease, infertility and even death. I would advice abstinence primarily but I know it’s not easy and people have been exposed to all sorts in their growing years that have awakened sexual desire within them before it is ripe( c.f. Song of Solomon 8v4). I would advice the use of a condom with the caveat that it may shield the sperm from reaching the egg,or shield a virus or bacteria from infecting you, but it will not shield you from the wrath and judgement of God, or from the shame and guilt you will carry for a long time until you come to repentance. And these condoms etc can even fail, or desire may overcome you and you’ll lose your senses and forget to us it. Bottom line,the safest sex is no sex.
My fellow ladies, please let Us zip-up, keep our body for the rightful own(our husbands to be) &keep it for God(our creator) because it is His temple &remember that HELL is real & HEAVEN is real. If U remove Ur underwear U’ll go to HELL; but if U dn’t remove Ur underwear (zip-up) U’ll go to HEAVEN. So choose today where U’ll spend Ur eternity.
what a big lesson if only our young girls will ever learn from this story. But they will never learn, because life is full of misery and every body has to experience life to become a better person.
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Nice one. He who has ears let him/her hear. I pray that as they read and understand God will give them the grace to remember and be doers of his will in Jesus name.Heaven and Hell is real so also is AIDS.
Lord have Mercy on us!
Pls ladies lets be careful. There is great gain in keeping our virginity.
May the lord have mercy and forgive all our past and wrong doings, and may He recouncile us to himself and give us & our younger generations the grace to overcome temptations.
Its realy true da man da disvirgin u anite before ur weding wil stil use dat to insult u.ladys pls a word is enough 4 da wise.wht wil u tel God if in da process u give up.think
Oh lord have mercy on Nigerian ladies
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Men pls learn to be disciplined , learn to deal with your Emotions , never allow ur body to control you . Learn to zip up and wait for God’s time . Pls our girls know that our body is the temple of God keep urself for God and when the time is ripe God will bless you with a good husband and will love and honour you till death do u part . I was like that innocent girl that was deceived and was taken advantage of her feelings . I now realised that this life is full of wickedness and beasts . I give God all the glory bcos i am now a person waiting for God’s time .
Lord have mercy!
SOME GIRLS GIVE THEIR BOYFRIENDS HUSBAND PRIVILEGE.
I like that
hmmmn! This is one of the most touching piece I’ve ever read. If only this kind of articles could take over the society today, it would do us a whole lot of good. The world is immoral, the movies, the music, it’s all about immorality and has taken over the young minds. Fornication is now seen as a normal thing that comes with age. Let’s make heavenly race our priority then all those side distractions will be far from us. The truth is, we are in the end time and it’s bound for iniquity to mutiply but he who endures till the end, shall be saved. Let’s live a holy life, keeping our bodies and making a difference in this present age. The grace of God is always around we us, all we need do is Tap into it. God bless you all. Shalom!
since u cannot create any part of ur body u have no right to destroy it, ur body is the temple of God, so be a principle woman. stay bless!!
Hope this wil be a lesson to our past and present lives
If it were possible,i wish to have dis boldly printed on a bill board for our INFACTUATION-CUM-LOVE-BLIND-YOUTHs. Gullible young girls b warned
LOVE CAN WAIT TO GIVE, LUST CANNOT WAIT TO GET. SEX IS NEVER A PROOF OF LOVE. IF SOMEONE REALLY LOVE YOU, HE OR SHE SHOULD WAIT TILL YOU ARE LEGALLY MARRIED. YOUTHS SHOULD DIFFERENTIATE FRIENDSHIP, DATING, FROM COURTSHIP AND MARRIAGE. CAMPUS OR YOUTH-FULL FREEDOM IS OPPORTUNITY TO DO RIGHT THINGS WITH YOUR LIFE NOT LAWLESSNESS. SEXUAL PURITY GIVES YOU REST OF MIND, PEACE WITH GOD, CLEAR CONSCIENCE AND DIGNITY OF A PROVEN INTEGRITY OF LIFE. ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU CAN’T DEFINE WILL DEFILE YOU. FRIENDSHIP IS NOT BY FORCE, BUT CHOICE. YOUR CHOICES DETERMINE YOUR CHANCES IN LIFE. UNGUIDED EMOTIONS WILL ALWAYS LEAD TO SELF DESTRUCTION AND EXPLOITATION BY OPPORTUNISTS AROUND. LADIES SHOULD VALUE THEIR BODY MORE THAN THEIR FOOD AND PRESENT CONDITIONS. NEVER MAKE A PERMANENT DECISION IN A TEMPORARY SITUATION. IF YOU FOLLOW WHAT IS IN VOGUE, YOU WILL SOON BECOME A ROGUE. STAND OUT TO BE A STANDARD. HAVE A GODLY VALUE SYSTEM. ANYBODY CAN BE YOUR COLLEAGUE BUT EVERYBODY IS NOT QUALIFIED TO BE YOUR FRIEND. YOUR FRIEND WILL DETERMINE YOUR END. A FUTURE YOU CAN PICTURE, YOU WILL FEATURE BY GOD’S GRACE. SEE YOU ON TOP.
Keep ur underwears on both ladies and glentlemen,cos God expects dat u keep ur temple(which is ur body)clean and pure. God sees and knows u might think nobody knows or can see if ur underwear is on or not but dn’t 4get dat God sees in secret and rewards Openly.God told d prests to keep their underwear on when they come b4 Him. We r priests of the most High God and our God is ominpresence so we r always in His presence as priests we should keep our underwear on at all times.God is faithfull and He rawards faithfullness
Wow, what an account! Thank you so much for sharing this. I pray that our girls will listen!
Anyone who tolls or defiles God’s temple(his/her body) is like money-changers & others who infuriated Jesus Christ in Jerusalem(jh.2). God’s temple always deserves honor.
Anyone who toll or defiled God’s temple(his/her body) is like money-changers & others who infuriated Jesus Christ in Jerusalem(jh.2) God’s temple always deserves honor.
Bt most girls felt dat a boy frnd dat dose nt ask fr dat is nt a man diafore tagged as nt fit oh GOD giv women d grace to wait til marriage Amen. Thnx fr ds sermon nd women ziiiiiip up
Bt most girls felt dat a boy frnd dat dose nt ask fr dat is nt a man diafore tagged as nt fit oh GOD giv women d grace to wait til marriage Amen. Thnx fr ds sermon
God is d author of relationship.we need to carry him along as we venture into any relationship.it wil help us to zip up
The devil is an accuser of destiny, so children of GOD dont abort an innocent baby cos you may go extra miles looking for one in marriage but i tell you that it takes the grace of GOD. May GOD see us through.
ds is so touching.especialy ds days,we youth of nowadays easily fall into ds temptation.may God hav mercy on us nd show us His way.do not pul off ur pant!!
Too much in dis world now,imagine a child of 13 year having boyfriend,i was even afraid of giving birth 2 a female child.
U dnt 2 b afraid of having a female child or r u scared of being a female. U only nid 2 bring her up wel nd ntn bad wl happen 2 her. My family has more females nd jst a male bt dat doesn’t mean we r bad. One need 2 b prayerful in other 2 overcome every temptatn, especially dat of pre-marital sex. I’m proud 2 b a female nd I know my parents r proud 2 me. Same as God, he is proud 4 making me a female, bt pls ladies, lets say 2 pre-marital sex nd abortion no mata wat it may cause.
I am so touched. This is a a true confession that our youth and undergraduate in school shoul really take note of. Ladies don’t take off ur underware bcos it may cost u ur life.
Does virginity alone quaranty Heaven? How much is paid to a girl for being a virgin? This is absolutely none sense. All you need is the knowlege and fear of God; not being a virgin.
The knowledge and fear of GOD makes one a virgin. This is if it has not been lost before the knowledge and fear was acquired.
Also, when the knowledge and fear is acquired after having been lost, if we pracrice GOD commandments, we become new creatures.
But then, no one takes on a qualitative character because he wants to be paid for it. Those types of characters brings rewards. Honesty, being on time, hardworking etc gets reward both from GOD and man. Just like virginity. Nobody will pay money to his wife for being a virgin, but she will have the respect of the husband, her inlaws, her family’s too. GOD will bless her in more ways than you think.
Its the duty of each one of us to be virgins, its commanded by the Bible. All who are deligent in their duty will stand before kings.
This is an experience that should leave us all soberly seeking how to get closer to GOD, how to listen to HIM and obey HIS commanments.
The knowledge and fear of GOD makes one a virgin. This is if it has not been lost before the knowledge and fear was acquired.
Also, when the knowledge and fear is acquired after having been lost, if we pracrice GOD commandments, we become new creatures.
But then, no one takes on a qualitative character because he wants to be paid for it. Those types of characters brings rewards. Honesty, being on time, hardworking etc gets reward both from GOD and man. Just like virginity. Nobody will pay money to his wife for being a virgin, but she will have the respect of the husband, her inlaws, her family’s too. GOD will bless her in more ways than you think.
Its the duty of each one of us to be virgins, its commanded by the Bible. All who are deligent in their duty will stand before kings.
thank u bros nor mind all this yeye people, dat like decieving themselves with any little opportunity, i don`t see anything touching here she wanted it as much as d guy, she is only crying wolf because she got pregnant.
Do u realise dat being a virgin shows u fear God by nt treating ur body anyhow n kiping His temple holy? I pray God will giv u more understanding.
its rather unfortunate dat d crave 4 materialism among ladies hav drifted dem away from dia God given partners. In d end dey bcom confused and move from one destructive man to another. Believe God in everything.
I pray that this message will have a dwelling place in the heart of the readers particularly our young girls
God’s grace is always enough for us.the fear of d lord shd be uppermost in our heart.joseph said l will not do this & sin against God.we live & die to d lord.no fornicator whether ladies or men will see d lord
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Lord have mercy on us ladies,men re nt worth dieing for, ladies should pls learn lesson from dis. Tanx my sis.
D grace of God is abound unto us if only we can tap n receive it. And also we nid strong determination n commitment 2 hold on.
Very wonderful piece. Amust read for evey young person especially the babies. Protect your chastity.
wow,may God help us.sex is indid worth waitin 4.
May God Almighty have mercy on us and forgive our sins!
ani guy who s nt a christian,and i mean a disciple does nt knw wat Love s bcos God is Love.d gud tin about it s dt God hs given us enof grace 2 stand.Titus 2:11.pls dnt mk Satan gain points by ur actn.Let God gain points and satan lose.
such nyc1,,,God help us!
Our body is God’s dwelling place and because He’s holy, filthiness (immorality of any sort or kind) should not be found there. Thank God for His mercy. This is a timely message, may God help us all to keep ourselves holy and acceptable unto God in Jesus name. Amen
except 4 a brain disordered girl 2 actually uncover her godly holy temple without a reason, d only reason why our elder sister up there overwear her underwear was b,cos an irresponsible boy who is ill mannered n not God fearing, boys,men we can also stop dis ungodliness if only we can play our own part by control our selfly emotion,”in every reaction there is an equal and opposite reaction”so dis prove d fact dat there will not b reaction if d reactant is faulty,correct and water ur life with godliness and many lives will b corrected and watered…FATHER HAVE MERCY AND HELP US.
Dat was a nice one.my body is d temple of d most high.
It’s a real lesson 4 all humanity nt only ladies bcos d wages of immoral sex goes beyond pregnancy n abortion.Almighty HIV/AIDS n oda STD always around.Pls, let us not pull OUR UNDERWEAR ANY HOW.
so pathetic, what if she had died in the process? LORD lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil men. Amen.
Ladies b warmd n vry b kiaful
Sex manaic, it is nw common. Who can bel d cat. God’s grace nd human effort. Just say U can.
Hmmm,this is a great sermon i have ever heard.may God help us to abide by it in Jesus name.
grt lesson to all, especially to these little girls gaining admission right after sec. Sch. It’s worth waiting for…d right person will even help u kip it for d right time.
dis is not a surprise at all bcos dis is d most thing satan is using 2 lead God’s pple 2 hell fire & i pray dat God will help dis generation especially our girls 2 be able 2 keep their body till they get wedded
Take off ur Underwears, only 4 one ”MAN” ur Husband and u will be justified.
DONT TAKE OFF YOUR UNDERWEAR.
“BE A PRO-LIFE”
It a great lesson for us both guys and ladies outside there…I pray for God grace to sustain us all
I pray God to help his children, because its easier said than done, we need ur grace oh LORD.
Good lesson 2 others.
our body is God temple should never be define with sin.
DOnT try TO pUlL uR uNdErWaRE bECoZ iT iS a PrIdE tO bE hOLy …..KEEP IT SAVE…AID IS REAL…DONT TRY IT.
As 4 me,as a socilogist i dont bliv in tales bt reaserch, research as shown dat ladies ar found forcin guts to av sex wit them,does it mean dat dis nuderwear tin is 4 onlt girls,wat of d boys. Last week in OOU, ladies at caught sleepin wit each other,which is gettin rampant vert day in nigger campus,d point am dragin is puttin down ur underwear 4 who lesbian,lectuters,suger daddy,boyfrds,girlfrds,prostitute, even parents.
I cry, I sob. So pathetic! I pity today’s ladies, our tomorrow’s mothers.
honesly if der was virginity test b4 mariag dis world wuld av bin a beta plac cos me i want 2 mary a virgin like myselfooooo!!
So unfortunate u experienced dis.But,I thank God 4 u that u lived 2 share dis.God help us(youths) 2 learn.
Heart touchin…..bt i knw d grace of God is suficient 2 we ladies
Heart touchin…bt i knw d grace of God is suficint unto we ladies.
God will help us…..So encouraging. Keep up d good work.
God have mercy on me.
For the fact that you realised your mistake and turned to God for forgivess, the LORD will surely forgive you ,but Go and sin no more.
may God help dis generation…
It really touch me i pray God should help us
Its a lesson for all
Until I knew and get understand I knew nothing. This is where we see the goodness of God there is a lot of shame in church, all bcoz we lack love. Leaders in the church live right in front of the congregation so that people of God will desire to wait upon the Lord if they see love in ministers of God with their families and their wives they will Disere that life. To u must sister we all have scarces and testimonies u are a blessing that u came out and shout, u are truly a daughter of Zion. To the brothers remember what the Lord said anyone who will destroy my Temple I will destroy him alSo. Fear the Lord, I wonder which man can be trusted with the garden of Eden again. Stay blessed people of God.
Infact am so touched by wat i just read.God bless u so much.
A christian brother is y i dnt trust guys as far as i can throw them plus, ild rather stick pins in my eye than ve such a persons child knwing ild be buildin a circle of sickos who wil hurt sm1s daughter.
many a man can still be trusted with the garden of Eden. It is the lady that should stop “courting” the serpent. Ladies that fall such victim are deserving of the punishment, because if you are mislead wrongly, you will suffer rightly. Besides, the lady here in question” what’s she doing at the Freshers’ party where she met the guy second time. should christian be going for such knowing full the evil that happens there? Didn’t she read in her bible the portion that asked Christian to flee from all appearance of evil? Pls,lets put things in perspective. Thank God, she has realized her mistake, and she is now strong in God, but to blame the male folk for every female problem is like blaming the rain for the flood.
even though she was a Christian, she was not sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit that was why she was unable to flee from all appearance of evil. Thanx
God bless you for this piece!
THIS IS GREAT ADVISE I PRAY GOD SHOULD HELP US TO DO HIS WILL
Its so unfortunate. We kip readin dis stuffs and we dont change. Sum of us are even opportuned to see shits like dat, stil we dnt change. It’s easier said dan done.
I pray dat God will lead us to d right way
Anyman who can lure a woman who is not his wife to bed can equally destroy her.No one will protect your destiny for you execpt you.Life is so precious that we all have to protect it.There no second chance if the first one is lost.certificate is not worth the price of a fullfilled life.Protect your life.
May God help we youth of today. Geting ourselves discoverd not until a deed has been done isnt good enough. Howeva our body is temple of christ and we’ve got to protect it be male or female. A male who has a better future plan for a female wouldn’t be after taking her off her underwear, unmarried.
it’s my prayer that the lord should give the ladies of today the strength to resist such emotion whenever it comes their way
No matter how irresistible his hands are, if he’s not your husband you’ld be absolutely wrong before God if you let him defile your body which is the temple of the living God.
Eh lady, please keep your body until after you’ve walked down the aisle with your husband. God’s grace is sufficient for us.
Pathetic,most ladies get to realise jst wen it is too late.
i wish dos girls wil be readiny nd brownsin dis, but they wouldn’t. God wil c dem 2rue shal.
It’s quite a touching story…wish we ladies can learn..giv us ur strent O!!! LORD….. 4 by strenght shal no man prevail
This is powerful but the reality is that the atmosphere in which this decision is often made is so full of emotions that the rational faculties desert all involved. Its an atmosphere of fun of a young girl wanting to be validated by mostly a guy in the univeristy who knows his ways around talking to a young girl just at the point of self emancipation a very unequal encounter with hormones running wild………… its in a reality a very weak one for most girls And its not for a weak christian girl not versed in the ways of satan
I am soo touched!!! Lord have mercy!!!!!!
Hmmmmm. A very pathetic story how i wish all the gals will learn from your mistake.
Thank you for unveiling this story.Only if we can imbibe the bitter counsel of Abstinance.
Hmmm! Lord hv mercy on sm girls. De alwys read n hear dis kind of stories bt lord, give us all d grace to hold un2 u ALWAYS.AMEN
its medicine after death.its just a confirmed lesson for all,look before you leap,a guy dat cannot cut his heart for you doesnt worth sticking wit.your body is Gods temple
As for me, this is one of the reasons this social network was created.Indeed, it is a thinking corner for the day and a food for thought.kudos to the spirit who made you to put-up it in the air.
A Nice One! But Please, even if can’t Help pulling it,PLEASE,NEVER GO FOR AN ABORTION! IT’S NEVER A GOOD OPTION! THAT BABY HAS A DESTINY!
Peace Be With You!!!
Don’t pull it pls
God Is Good & Merciful To Everyone & We Must Not Take That For Granted. This Is A Gospel Message To Both Ladies & Future Boys. We Must Have The Fear Of God In All We Are Doing. Seeks 4 d Kingdom Of God First & All Other Things Shall Be Added Unto It…Let God Leads Us Through IJN. Girls Beware
Hmmn,may d almighty God give us d grace 2 hold on,IJN.
This is a very salient point to all ladies.You are God’s expression of beauty,you don’t have to put off your underwear to be sure a man truely loves you.Don’t ever fall into the trap of guys with deceptive words.Any guy that does not respect and honour your virginity is not fit to be kept at arm’s length.Be very careful .
In this story we all hv learnt alot as youth we r all adviced to kip our virginity for the name of the lord to be gloryfied, we see in her case she was scared of what her parent might do to her not minding what she might feel, she desided to have an abortion which result to regrets,pain,muder and shame. one thing I also learnt in dis is that when ever u’ve sin against God we should accept it and change for the better. in her case she didn’t accept her fault, and that’s was why she felt so much pain during d sinful act. The lord God will help us all in jesus name Amen
DON’T TAKE OFF YOUR UNDERWEAR! I like that!
Well! for you that have not been involved in this, i congratulate you. Please be aware that the devil is going to and fro looking for who to devour. She had second chance bur you may not have second chance, please keep your body HOLY.
This is quite an interesting piece i must confess. It’s GOD that will help us all.
We ave been bought wit a price. Any man saying he must ave sex wit u 2 prove ur love is an Abedinigo. So let him go.
“Abedinigo”…lols. U right dearie, ladies need to wise up and see the better things the future holds for them. A touching story…
This life testimony is a preaching of its own that could make our ladies to keep their bodies away from every form of sexual illicit. What if she had died in the process, all in the name of pleasure. My sisters, AIDS is real, HELL is real.
A big AMEN to that. Our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. We are not our own but we are bought at a price.. the blood Jesus.A Girl must preserve herself until she gets married not only for the reason of making her partner happy but because she honors and love the Lord by keeping herself pure. She will reap a reward for this. It could be a successful married life and a more intimate relationship with God.
Leave ur life in a Godliness